The scenarios game

How well do you read people?

Ten scenarios a round. For each one, work out what the other person most likely meant — not what they should have done. You'll find out how often you read them right, and where you're strongest. No signup, nothing to write.

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All 47 moments, by category

Love 17

  • "It's fine, do whatever you want."
  • He goes quiet mid-argument
  • "Here we go."
  • "You never help around here."
  • The rearranged dishwasher
  • "I just need some space."
  • She starts crying mid-argument
  • He initiates. She's tired. He rolls over without a word.
  • "Fine. You're right." — said flat
  • "It's okay, honestly."
  • "If you loved me, you'd know."
  • "Maybe we're just not compatible."
  • The surprise weekend
  • She brings up something from two years ago
  • "I'm sorry you feel that way."
  • Two glances at his phone over dinner
  • He earns much more, and calls the money "ours"

Family 10

  • "You're just like your father."
  • The joke about his mother
  • She overrules him in front of the child
  • Home for Christmas
  • "Are you sure about that, with the kids?"
  • "You look well."
  • The muted family group chat
  • The sibling who never calls first
  • Different ways of grieving
  • "Have you eaten?"

Friends 10

  • They've gone quiet
  • The night out you weren't invited to
  • The friend who only calls in a crisis
  • Cancelled last minute. Again.
  • You don't like your friend's new partner
  • Advice you didn't ask for
  • "Sorry, been mad busy."
  • You heard it from someone else
  • "We should catch up properly!"
  • The friend who's drinking more

Work 10

  • "Doing great — just work on visibility."
  • They presented my idea as theirs
  • The manager who replies "ok."
  • Left off a meeting you'd normally be in
  • A colleague goes cold after your promotion
  • "Let's take that offline."
  • "Per my last email"
  • "Quick call?"
  • Agrees in the meeting. Objects afterwards.
  • Your friend becomes your manager

Every scenario is invented. None of them comes from anyone's real conversation.